How To Stop Complaining and Start Doing

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How to stop complaining and start doing // Stop Complaining and Start Doing. In this video, I go off on a motivational rant. This is full of inspiration, motivation and tips for how to be happy. Success starts when you stop complaining. In step one I talk about how to stop complaining and in step two I give you a motivational boost of inspiration with an action plan to start.

Here is the transcript from the video:

I’ve had a couple conversations the last couple of days and I don’t quite get where everybody’s Minds are at! Because I’ve just always been one of those people just to go get it and do it. But, I was talking to somebody the other day telling them my mindset is to plan and then start executing. Whereas other people are just “waiting for the right moment”

There is NEVER a Right Time!

However, if you’re waiting for the right moment you need to know that the right moment is never going to come! There’s never a right time to have a kid! There’s never a right time to quit a job! There’s never a right time to take that trip or go to college or whatever it is! Even to start that business there’s never going to be a right time because stuff is always going to happen!

Stuff’s going to happen!

Things are going to happen! People are going to get sick you’re going to get sick you’re going to go through stuff!

For instance, when I picked up my RV and started RV life! Most people think of RV life as always traveling, but the reality is people are walking by and I’m in a parking lot right now! I hide in my RV and work from anywhere! This is the beauty of this business it’s not always Glitz and glamour. I’m not all popped out and can do whatever I want all the time in my RV. I’m sure somebody would probably say something if I did that but this journey is about learning. The only way that you’re going to learn is to start doing! If you just start getting your feet wet, start doing something! Stop sitting there saying: “6 months from now I’m going to quit this job.” What is going to change in 6 months from now other than you becoming extremely more unhappy than you already are?

What if?

If you did quit your job, yeah maybe you would have to eat Beanie Weenies for a little while? Move back in with somebody or your living Arrangement isn’t going to be what you ideally want. I don’t know how to make you get out of that mindset of having to have everything the way everyone else thinks you’re supposed to have it? Even though I had it: I had the house, the car, the money, and found out it doesn’t matter! I had the title, the fancy job, and one day I said you know what I don’t care!

I don’t care about all of “this” I don’t want “this” and now I have twice as much! Just because it’s the things that I’m exposed to, the opportunities, the people — The networking! I’ve been invited to people’s houses and I’ve had phone calls with the craziest people that you’re probably sitting there thinking “one day wouldn’t it be so nice if I could talk to them?” No you can talk to them! It’s you reaching out to them or you making a connection and knowing the right people! I have been so thankful to be exposed to people right now and I could not have imagined this being any different!

Quitting My Job…

I’m so excited about where things are going and it’s all because I took a leap of faith I said you know what there’s got to be something better out there? I quit my job! I said I’m done with this. I was sick of my boss telling me all this tedious crap that didn’t matter. Telling me I couldn’t wear my “party dresses” to work!

But, now I can wear my “party dresses” if I want! I can wear my flip-flops! Right now while I’m talking to you I’m sitting in my workout gear! I can wear whatever I want and don’t really care because now I’m My Own Boss! So Be Your Own Boss and you won’t have that problem!

“The System”

Sorry, If I come off as a corporate hater because they make you give up your life! Check-in here, don’t talk on the phone, don’t check your personal emails, you’re only here for me and you’re not allowed to have a life at all until you leave here! Then when you leave to get a couple hours of sleep, you better get back and start slaving again! So you either slave to create their empire or you can slave to create your Empire, it’s up to you!

I’m so fired up! I get irritated at people who say oh Brandi I want to do it I want to be like you but…” You can be like me! It’s up to you to figure out what is holding you back! Is it somebody? Are you worried about what people are going to think? Are you worried about what your family’s going to think? Are you worried about what your friends are going to think?

The LOA

I can tell you this as soon as I started making decisions for myself instead of making decisions for other people and what I thought was going to make them happy my life turned around and things just started falling out of the sky! I don’t even know how to explain that except the law of attraction! It is all in your mind! Stop worrying about what your friends think because they really probably aren’t your friends anyway.

Stop asking for permission and just start doing you won’t have this problem anymore! Because once you just start doing and things start working out…. You aren’t going to need people’s permission. They’re going to be thinking “oh wow that’s really cool”

I remember when I got ready to quit my job and the few people who knew kept saying “Oh my God you’re going to quit your job!” I didn’t really tell that many people because I didn’t want anybody to know, but the people that did know, they were freaking out! I prepared them as much as I could but I mean nobody knew what wild ride this was going to take.

I’m so thankful for the people that have stood behind me and doors are starting to open right now that I never could have imagined and where this business is about to go is so crazy! I mean now I’m hiring people and before I was just running this by myself and now I’m like man when I was in Corporate America I had people to help me run this! Starting a business and becoming a digital nomad, It’s been a journey and a process. I’ve lost money, I’ve lost friends and I’ve lost people but I’ve gained so much more!

If you’re thinking about taking a leap of faith…

If you’re thinking about taking a leap just start with a step! Take one step today! Make a goal every single day!

If you want to buy a Ferrari that’s your goal (which is a horrible stupid goal to have but…) if that’s what you want then say you know what: “I want to buy this Ferrari so the first step let me make an appointment and go to the dealership and just look at them. Second Step let me look at financing options. The third step let me break it down into (instead of Here’s how much it’s going to cost me to have this car every month think about) how much it was going to cost each day?

How much can you resell and flip at Goodwill on Amazon and eBay? Maybe you make bracelet charms or fishing Lures, whatever you like to sell or do for a hobby. Maybe you bake cakes, sell lemonade, it does not matter just do something start doing something! It is going to give you the skills to make the next step!

Go to the dealership take a test drive, each day do something else! If you’re looking to hire somebody: start taking applications! Start putting a process in place now! Remember that when you get ready to hire somebody they need something to go by.

Taking A STEP

You start taking a little step each day to get you towards that bigger goal. It’s all in your mindset. I don’t know how to tell you that if you’re willing to go live with your parents if they’re cool with that then move back in with your parents! Get over your little ego problem, get home start, saving that money, eat your Beanie Weenies, hang out with your mom, let her help you wash your laundry. I mean it’s free help (depending on your family)! And then once you start making your money you take care of your parents!

That’s just how it works! This 9 to5 crap y’all got to get over that. Monday through Sunday I’ll be hustling! I’m out and about usually traveling meeting new people and then on Friday and Saturday I’m watching Live PD (now OPL) because that’s my show. The rest of the time I’m planning and executing and I mean I live my life on the go being a nomadic entrepreneur and digital noamd but there’s a plan in place, a calendar, I’m putting it all together!

It’s a process but oh my gosh, but it’s all happened because I started! I never thought I would make money flipping things at Goodwill but that’s how I quit my job! I started going to Goodwill on my lunch breaks, when I got off work, on my days off. Then I started taking my parents so I could get the senior citizen discount. You need to start making use of your time (you know your free time) stop watching Empire! I mean I love Empire (the RV show at least I use to for the 1st few seasons) but you got to cut out anything keeping you back from reaching your goals.

Value Your Time

So if you’re going to be watching Empire then make sure you’re also researching on Google how to start your business at the same time! Don’t be out there at the Empire party partying up with your friends and drinking your drinks because while you’re out there smoking and drinking and doing whatever you’re doing… your friends are not helping you get where you are trying to go! Remember they are not trying to go where you are trying to go either! You need to get over that!

My first step would be to drop your friends, drop your family, anybody that isn’t adding value to your life right now. Meaning pushing you further towards your goals, helping you go somewhere. If they are trying to get you to go over the club go that’s not helping you, so you got to cut that out. You got to figure out what’s important to you and start making steps, people, plans, processes, etc… Start putting them all in place to push your towards your goals. It’s all about executing! It’s really not that hard if you don’t know how to do something Google it! Google is your best friend!

ABOUT ME:

If we haven’t officially met, Hey I’m Blogging Brandi An EX-Corporate Kool-Aid Drinker, born to be Creator, Female Digital Nomad & Entrepreneur who LOVES RV Living! (oh and Sharing My Advice On YouTube!) Plus, I’m the creator of RVersity, my university for RVers & the name of my other YouTube channel! I’ve also been a licensed cosmetologist for over 17+ years and Graduated From College as a Finance Major… But I decided to quit my job, sell everything to start my own business (and if you’ve seen my story then ya know why I live in an RV aka how I ended up becoming a digital nomad or should I say a “nomadic entrepreneur”)! Now I help others who want to follow in my footsteps…

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