Reasons Why I stopped drinking: How giving up alcohol became my superpower in life and business!
I Wasn’t Sure if I Was an Alcoholic. But I Needed to Quit … There are Reasons Why I Stopped Drinking and How giving up alcohol became my superpower! Why Are So Many People Going Alcohol-Free? Is life better without alcohol? What are the Benefits of Quitting Alcohol When You Stop Drinking? What happens to my body when I stop drinking alcohol? What happens psychologically when you stop drinking? Maybe you’re wondering Does anyone regret quitting alcohol?
Whether you’re an alcoholic or non-alcoholic if this sounds like questions you might be asking yourself or Google then I’m here to tell you WHY I stopped drinking alcohol and The Easy Way to Stop Drinking! I’m sharing my own personal journey as a Quitting Alcohol Guide for you to hopefully be inspired to finally learn How to Stop Drinking too!
This is Why I stopped drinking alcohol (over a year ago…) — the truth!
My boyfriend told me most people don’t just go out there and scream from the rooftops hey I quit drinking and I’ve been sober for over a year now! But, hey why not be the first to share my story and inspire you or at least answer that burning question you might be wondering too: Why do you not drink alcohol? Better yet why did you quit drinking? What happened? What do you drink and do now instead?
Is life better without alcohol?
The reality is that most people fail to admit drinking alcohol is a horrible habit…
It leads to problems, poor decisions, regrets, foggy memories, destroys relationships, money disappears with no ROI, and is not part of a healthy productive lifestyle more or less it’s for people with a lazy mindset.
But I cannot tell you how many times the conversation comes up about drinking alcohol and I get asked: Why do you not drink alcohol? So I made this blog post to address this so the next time someone asks me (maybe you) then you’ll know why I wrote it!
Or maybe you’ve wondered yourself How to Stop Drinking and what are the Benefits of Quitting Alcohol?
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Why I don’t drink Alcohol (anymore)…
Besides all of the above that I just mentioned, I stopped drinking alcohol over a year ago and it has been LIFE CHANGING! (in both good and bad ways…)
And I’ve kinda already “briefly” mentioned it ICYMI in a prior post “Healthy Habits That Changed My Life & Business (+ One I Quit!)”
Why DO you drink?
I never understand the need to answer this: “Why don’t you drink alcohol?” question — I mean… Why don’t you drink grape soda? Or Diet Coke, root beer, or better yet Why don’t you ever drink water instead? An even better question might be “Why do you feel the need to drink alcohol?”
- Is it because you’re single and it might help you meet somebody?
- Is it because you enjoy the taste?
- Need something to take the edge off, relax, etc…?
- Because everyone else is doing it?
What’s your excuse FOR drinking?
For some reason, I felt the need to explain this… in hopes that YOU might stop drinking alcohol too!
It’s been a wild ride to say it lightly.
Reasons I Decided To Stop Drinking Alcohol + Benefits
Here are a few of the reasons I’ve decided to not drink alcohol and some of the lessons I’ve learned after removing it from my life too!
📌 Sleeping more often or later than usual
One reason I stopped drinking or am glad I did is because it was causing me to sleep later and more often than I usually did when I wasn’t drinking.
If you know me my body naturally wakes up at 5am and if I get up any later my entire morning routine, day etc… feels lost, ruined aka not in a good mood.
If I drank during the day I wanted to nap
If I drank at night I’d either pass out early or stay up too late
Needless to say, I didn’t have a regular sleep schedule even if I wanted to…
📌 Not Making Good Decisions For My Business
Being my own boss, running my own business means I make my own schedule and no one’s gonna fire me if I don’t show up on time…. So there is a little good and bad that comes with being an entrepreneur keep that in mind. You have to set boundaries in your life and business with people, places, events, products, and purchases everything!
If I’m drinking during business meetings or drank the night before it leads to BAD business decisions, maybe ones I regret! Even worse attending business meetings with a foggy mindset!
I remember on time feeling so crappy all I cared about was getting off that phone call, I literally talked myself out of the sale so I could go sober up!
📌 Walking on eggshells…
I used to live my entire life constantly walking on eggshells to deal with other people’s drinking. Now, I feel like it will be permanently engraved in my body to react on eggshells when people around me are drinking! I cannot tell you how many days and nights I had to walk on eggshells around other people who were drinking in my life!
It was so crazy how much someone else’s drinking can control you, your life, your business, your mind, and more! It’s like I never knew who to expect, so I was always on eggshells, shaking, worried, and full of anxiety. But that wasn’t just me, it impacted my dogs, family, friends, and clients, — there was a ripple effect!
📌 Feeling Confused & Questioning Myself
I was always confused was it me or them. Did that happen or what really happened? I could never figure it all out especially when I was drinking with other people myself! How are you supposed to act sober or operate sober if you’re not? So another reason I stopped drinking was because of how much I was questioning myself and feeling confused.
📌 What If Something Happened?
What if something happened to a loved one like my mom or dad and I needed to run for help? If I was drinking, drunk, or hungover how would I be of assistance to anyone until I sobered up? even if I could uber, Lyft, or catch a ride safely over to them… how could I be of a sober mind!
P.S. Something actually did happen not that long ago! I remember sitting at the RV Park when we got a call from my Dad telling me he was paralyzed and let’s just say I’m so glad I was sober at that time in my life! I talked about this on my RVersity Blog & YouTube Channel titled: “Behind The Scenes Of My RV Life Updates + BIG NEWS!“
📌 BAD Situations I ended up in
I cannot tell you how many BAD situations I ended up involved in or might even have put myself in. One time I remember praying to God while sitting passenger seat of my own car going almost 100 miles an hour with someone drunk at the wheel.
Everyone always says why would you get in the car? I’m just going to say that sometimes there are some situations without adding too many details that you just have to get in the car or let’s just say maybe you can’t get out. Maybe you didn’t know? Maybe it was unexpected?
Plus I can’t tell you how many bad trashy bars, bathrooms, brawls, etc… I’ve been in! There are a lot of things I could say here and now, but that is for another moment….
📌 Lost out on really good food!
FYI I only eat good food (joking not joking I’m a FOODIE! 🙃 ) and I can’t tell you how many restaurants I’ve left because their drinks sucked so I assumed their food did too and I would leave. Or I would be pissed the whole time sitting there thinking of if I could only have a drink with this.
I even avoided restaurants that didn’t serve alcohol because I wanted to sit eat and drink! It’s like I planned every food outing around alcohol! Even happy hours could get me in the door! But, I will say I eventually evolved to only high-class alcohol 😉
📌 Time WASTED
I used to spend hours eating out, not that I don’t sit and eat longer than everyone else still but we’d buy a bottle of wine or a pitch of margaritas so it would take a while to drink between two people!
I remember once my Mom said something about how we had been somewhere for a few hours already. I just thought that was normal.
Sometimes we might even get a second pitcher or bottle of wine if we were somewhere long enough.
📌 It Cost More To Drink (& Eat)
Money adds up while drinking! A $20 meal could be $200 if I only ate a burger at the bar but added a $100+ bottle of good wine to go with it and let’s not forget to tip!
But even just drinking alone out or at home can add up quickly! Especially if you don’t know how to stop. Most people I know who drink beer don’t just drink one can and stop. And those I know that drink wine usually have more than a 5oz pour, and if they do they always want more! We always used to order a bottle of wine or a pitcher of margaritas!
Another thing to mention here is that it also costs more to EAT in terms of CALORIES and weight not just money. But maybe even time at the gym, time and or money that you could be spending doing something more meaningful.
📌 My Body Was Being Abused
At some point, your body says NO not anymore! I can’t tell you how many times I’ve thrown up or had a horrible headache, overslept, spent a day eating crappy food, and recovering all because of alcohol. In fact right before I stopped drinking I loved margaritas and my body just shut down every time I drank them, it was like my body viscously projecting it back out both ends if you can imagine.
Plus, my body was being abused by other people. I felt like I was forced to suck things and f* things even when I felt just not like that was wanted to be doing — at least not right then in some of those moments. But, it’s like I would give in to please other people. Yet in my mind, I felt like I was committing a sin! Also just imagine being semi sober while someone slobers all over you!
And if you didn’t know at the age of 16 I was sexually assaulted by a family friend while his wife and baby were sleeping in the other room. Someone who was drinking and had also given me alcohol when I wasn’t of age back then. Looking back now things start to make sense. His actions have impacted my life ever since.
📌 It is Sinful & Spiritual In Nature!
Speaking of sin some may argue it is not a sin to drink but to be drunk. I might have to say that drinking in any form is a “Spirit” inside of you impairing your judgment.
My girl Miranda over at Raydiant Lady once told me that if you notice a lot of the liquor stores where you buy alcohol will say “Spirits” in the name: Liquor & Spirits, Wine & Spirits, Alcohol & Spirits Store, etc…
Plus, in general terms, drinking is just against all of what God who is good is all about! The Bible tells us not to look at the wine that sparkles in the glass (don’t quote me on where to find those relatable verses — but you get my drift) — I also like to ASK GotQuestions.Org? all types of things Biblical like that!
📌 It Cost Me My Child
Alcohol was the catalyst for why I lost my child, and why I allowed that decision to ever happen. I cared more about pleasing others than I did myself. I was too busy living my life listening to everyone else.
When I got pregnant it should’ve been the moment I stopped and decided to grow up. But, instead, I decided to make everyone else happy and terminate my pregnancy (yes I had an abortion 😭 ) and it changed my life too just not in the same way. It’s like I murdered my child and then went on about my day and lifestyle too.
Although if you haven’t ever heard my story then you might not know it was not a decision that I took lightly (even though it may sound so in this blog post)
📌 To Support Other Non-Alcoholics
I also stopped drinking to help support other people in my life and what started as helping one person turned into more and more overnight. I’m so happy to hear how others end up listening to my story, getting inspired by me, and knowing there is someone out there who does not care about drinking too!
I bought this little “Pocket Hug Token Sobriety Coin” on Amazon and gave it to those I love!
What do I drink instead?
The Easy Way to Stop Drinking is to have an alternative option! So I made you a list of the things we have tried but this is only a few of them…
List of cocktails we’ve tried:
- Sayso (Skinny Spicy Margaritas) – Mocktail Cold Brew Tea Bags!
- White Claw Flavored Non-Alcoholic Premium Seltzer (Lime, Black Cherry, Mango & Peach)
- Samuel Adams Just The Haze IPA Non-Alcoholic Beer
- Athletic Brewing Co (Favorite Run Wild Flavor)* Also tried Wit’s Peak Belgian style white
- Ritual Zero Proof Tequila + Skinny Mixes Strawberry Watermelon Margarita Mix (Non-Alcoholic)
- Proxies (AHM Tart & Spicy Red, Red Clay Tart & Juicy Red, Red Ember Rich & Spicy Red)
- Fresh Vietor Fresh Cocktail Mixers (Mexican Lime & Agave), Jalapeño & Lime*
- Coors Edge (Non-Alcoholic Brew)
- Mingle (Sparkling Mocktail) Cucumber Melon Mojito
- Greenbar Distillery (Lavender Bitters + Soda)
- (Non-Alcoholic) sparkling white wine by ISH
Here are the links for the products mentioned:
- Sayso Skinny Spicy Margarita Mocktail Cold Brew Tea Bags
- FIND IT HERE >> SAYSO Cocktail Tea Bags – Skinny Spicy Margarita
- White Claw Flavored Non-Alcoholic Premium Seltzer (Lime, Black Cherry, Mango & Peach)
- FIND IT HERE >> We bought the White Claw 0% Variety Pack (12 Cans)
- Samuel Adams Just The Haze IPA Non-Alcoholic Beer
- FIND IT HERE >> Samuel Adams Just The Haze Non-Alcoholic IPA
- Athletic Brewing Co. Run Wild Non-Alcoholic IPA
- FIND IT HERE >> Athletic Brewing Company Run Wild Non-Alcoholic IPA
- Athletic Brewing Co. Wit’s Peak Non-Alcoholic Belgian Style White
- FIND IT HERE >> Athletic Brewing Company Wit’s Peak Non-Alcoholic White
- Ritual Zero Proof Tequila Alternative
- FIND IT HERE >> Ritual Zero Proof Tequila Alternative
- Skinny Mixes Strawberry Watermelon Margarita Mix (Non-Alcoholic)
- FIND IT HERE >> Skinny Mixes Strawberry Watermelon Margarita Mix
- Proxies Non-Alcoholic Wine Alternatives
- FIND IT HERE >> Proxies Non-Alcoholic Wine Alternatives
- Fresh Victor Fresh Cocktail Mixers (Mexican Lime & Agave, Jalapeño & Lime)
- FIND IT HERE >> Fresh Victor Mexican Lime & Agave Cocktail Mixer
- FIND IT HERE >> Fresh Victor Jalapeño & Lime Cocktail Mixer
- Coors Edge Non-Alcoholic Brew
- FIND IT HERE >> Coors Edge Non-Alcoholic Beer
- Mingle Sparkling Mocktail Cucumber Melon Mojito
- FIND IT HERE >> Mingle Mocktails Cucumber Melon Mojito
- Greenbar Distillery Lavender Bitters + Soda
- FIND IT HERE >> Greenbar Distillery Lavender Bitters + Soda
- Chateau del ISH Non-Alcoholic Sparkling White Wine
- FIND IT HERE >> Chateau del ISH Non-Alcoholic Sparkling White Wine
- U Relax Calming Tonic
- FIND IT HERE >> U Relax Calming Tonic
What I was sipping on the other night…
In Case you missed it recently I talked about how we had A Rare & Unforgettable First Night at Maria ATL Buckhead with Savoring Stories in Every Bite! — hosted at our house in the city. But, it’s a BYOB event so you can bring whatever you want to drink with the 8-course food tasting menu!
Some might wonder what I was Drinking (since I don’t drink Alcohol) we had some NA (Non-Alcoholic) sparkling white wine by ISH to start the dinner event and then sipped on a proxy with the main dishes similar to a bottle of red wine (ish) lol but I didn’t get a pic of it all though you can see the Red ember bottle we had (a little snippet of it)
FIND IT HERE >> Chateau del ISH Non-Alcoholic Sparkling White Wine
FIND IT HERE >> Proxies Red Ember Non-Alcoholic Wine Alternative
Excuses People Make For Drinking:
I’ve been keeping a list of excuses people tell me every time this conversation comes up about drinking and the list of excuses is endless for why people insist on drinking…
- If I wasn’t single and I was married instead then maybe I’d quit drinking.
- It was FREE or Cheap!
- It was just celebratory…
- I only drink at social gatherings…
But hey some of these are probably things I used to say and excuses I used to make for drinking too!
Do you regret quitting drinking alcohol?
NO absolutely Not! It was a life-changing event for me, and our family, plus it has had a ripple effect on so many others it’s hard to begin to tell you the impact! It’s definitely a lifestyle change that takes time to adjust to. It’s not a NEW life or that things will be “Normal” but a “New Normal”
In case I ever need a reminder I watch OPL (On Patrol Live) on Fridays and Saturdays to see how horrible people act when they are drinking! It’s embarrassing, it’s sad, it’s disgusting, it’s a gentle reminder every weekend to say hey THIS IS WHY YOU NEED TO STOP DRINKING (& WHY I DID)!
Savoring Stories in Every Bite: A Rare & Unforgettable First Night at Maria ATL Buckhead!
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